some quick forum rules questions

ok i made a song saying someone attacked someone now it says no innapropriate language but does do a little bashing if i say a sound alike name is it still bashing? also the original song that is a link in to so you know the beat and speed does have an inaprottreate word in it if i say plz only watch if 18 years or older make it ok to post the hyperlink? o btw the person that was atatcked and slightly bashed is ane xpert just wont say his name but does make an expert remark. details plz i would rather not get banned from forums. also if those ways stated wont make it safe what would other thent ake out bashing and make a random name up. also my freind who wasint bashed said tis ok for me that i can post his real name (real in game name) in haypi forum is this ok knowing he said i could?

Im confused...
Could you maybe explain a bit more?

ok if i bash someone but i dont specify who it is is it bashing? if i post a hyperlink for a song and because it contains a reteded ba work if i say that you have to be 18 or older to watch is it ok? i knwo yuor not supposed to post usernames butif my freind said i could am i allowed?